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Step & Tradition Four: Inventory and Autonomy

Step Four

“Made a searching and fearless moral
inventory of ourselves.”

Tradition Four

“Each group should be autonomous
except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole.”

The A.A. book, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions states the following about Step Four: “Creation gave us instincts for a purpose. Without them we wouldn’t be complete human beings. [Yet] these instincts, so necessary for our existence, often far exceed their proper functions.”

Step Four is our way to discover how our instincts and desires have warped us, so that we can move toward correcting them.

Like lancing an infected wound, the step may cause short-term pain for longer-term healing. We must face our past fearlessly, trusting that our Higher Power will help and guide us—if we ask.

Tradition Four, according to the “Twelve and Twelve,” allows each A.A. group autonomy in decision-making, so long as the decision doesn’t affect other groups or A.A. as a whole.

As the “Twelve and Twelve” states, “We saw that the group, exactly like the individual, must eventually conform to whatever tested principles would guarantee survival. [Every] group had the right to be wrong.”

This tradition resulted from years of learning what can enhance or hinder an A.A. group. Autonomy for the group, with accountability to other groups and A.A. as a whole.—

A ‘Fellowship of Equals’

Since I’m in a few Twelve Step Programs, I benefit from applying wisdom and good thoughts learned in one of them to the other programs I work.

Case in point: When reading a daily Al-Anon devotion today, I saw the phrase “fellowship of equals.” The phrase was used to state that in Al-Anon, all members are equal. We don’t have a right to consider someone “less than” or ourselves superior to anyone else.

I read a similar thought years ago in the Big Book of A.A., in the chapter, “There is a Solution.” It states we are a people “who normally would not mix” but who are like the passengers of a great liner the moment after rescue from shipwreck.”

I continue to marvel at the range of people I meet in recovery meetings and service work. All national origins, religious beliefs (including atheists and agnostics), education and personal wealth. None of that matters in terms of recovery in each program, however the various perspectives and experiences enrich the interactions and knowledge I gain from meetings and conversations.

I never could have imagined how much I would gain in addition to my sobriety and serenity from walking amongst this “fellowship of equals”!

We are a “fellowship of equals” (image from Bigstock Photos)

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